Recovering From a Binge

Binge eating, the uncontrollable impulse to eat mass quantities of food despite any feelings of hunger or fullness.  Most people entrenched in diet culture can empathize with the terrible feeling that comes in the aftermath of a binge.  Whether they are suffering from BED, bulimia, or are just experiencing the effects of fad/yo-yo dieting, a binge is one of the most common disordered relationships with food.  Binge eating typically stems from an emotional attachment to food as a source of comfort followed shortly by feelings of guilt.  Many people who have binge eating episodes engage in dangerous purging behaviors such as throwing up or laxative abuse to regain an “empty” feeling.  These binge/purge cycles often seen in bulimic individuals are physically dangerous.

Personally, when recovering from anorexia I had several binge eating episodes.  The only way I can describe my own experience is that it was like my brain turned off and all I could focus on was the food.  I was in a blind effort to eat as much food as I could find and fit inside of me.  After consuming thousands of calories in just 20 minutes I would then cry and feel terrible and guilty.  While I was supposed to be eating a lot for my recovery, the binges were still not the normal relationship with food I actually needed.


Here is my quick guide for recovering immediately after a binge eating episode.  This process is what eventually allowed me to begin overcoming binge eating:

  1. Do not be hard on yourself about the binge – One of the worst parts of any binge is the abrupt feelings of overwhelming guilt that bubble up. These feelings are what lead to the continuation of dangerous behaviors such as purging.  The purging then eventually leads to more binging and the cycle is continuously perpetuated.  After you have a binge, recognize your feelings of shame or disappointment as temporary.  Remind yourself that what happened has happened and the best thing you can do for yourself is be kind and forgive yourself for the binge.  Regularly practicing this internal dialog will help stop binges from happening again.  Remind yourself over and over again that you have worth, that this misstep does not define you, that you are going to be completely fine. They key is to identify and replace the feelings of guilt with feelings of forgiveness.
  2. Distract yourself – After quickly having a loving reconciliation with yourself, quickly distract yourself before you can backtrack on the positive internal dialog. Put on a movie, go for a walk, paint your nails, take a shower, call a friend, do anything that takes your mind off of the binge that just happened.  The more time you take to separate yourself from the episode, the better you will begin to feel.  My go to way to distract myself was to brush my teeth and call a relative (almost always my dad) to catch up.  If you decide to exercise to distract yourself remember to take it easy.  Do not use exercise as a way to punish yourself.  Keep it simple with a light walk or calming yoga.
  3. Do not restrict your food – This might be the most important tip here. After your binge, when you have hopefully successfully identified and replaced the negative emotions, forgiven yourself, and then distracted yourself for a while to keep your mind off of it, CONTINUE TO EAT NORMALLY FOR THE REST OF THE DAY.  You may be less hungry naturally, but if you binge mid day you still need to eat dinner and if you binge at midnight you still need breakfast!  Restricting your intake to compensate for the binge will only put you back in a cycle where another binge becomes possible.

Binge eating is complicated, the reasons behind a binge are multifaceted and unique to everyone.  Often therapy can help with BED, bulimia, or just mending a very bad relationship with food.  However, there are a few things to remember to do to help yourself outside of seeking professional treatment.  Binges can be physiological and/or emotional.  The best ways to prevent them is by protecting yourself from both.

The first step is practicing consistent self care.  Treating yourself with love and respect will nurture a positive connection between yourself and your body which is an important step in repairing a damaged relationship with food.  Keeping a daily journal to write down feelings of gratitude and affirmations is a good first step.  It can often feel silly and awkward at first but eventually you will begin to notice the permanent changes it brings to your overall mindset.  While recovering, I wrote all over every mirror of my room positive quotes and self esteem boosting mottos.  Make sure you look upon yourself with love, and treat yourself to nice things whether it’s manicures, bike rides, or long colorful bubble baths.  Remind yourself that your body is merely a vessel for the beautiful soul underneath.

The next step is stop dieting.  Stop restricting.  Diets don’t work, they encourage an abundance/scarcity mentality which upsets your brain and your metabolism.  Practice eating intuitively.  There are many resources available that teach this way of thinking.  The way I achieved it was by eating my minimum 3500 calories to gain weight, reset my metabolism, and shift my perspective on restriction.  Eventually, when the mentality of restriction began fading away the urge to binge left too.

Binge eating is not a solitary experience, many people go through it every day.   You are not alone.  With a determination to make a change and by practicing self love and no restrictions, binge eating is something you can recover from.

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Rachel, 25, Badass feminist, Kitchen mess maker, Spanish speaking television buff, Bikram yoga junkie, Buffy Summers wannabe, ED Recovery warrior.

4 thoughts on “Recovering From a Binge

  1. Hi Rachel,

    Are you familiar with Tabitha Farrar and her podcasts/blog, etc? She has spoken a lot about so-called ‘binge eating’ in recovery from anorexia, and it’s actually a really normal thing. It’s the body’s normal response to starvation! It could be argued that it really shouldn’t even be called binge eating, but just the body desperately trying to reverse the energy deficit created. Anyway, I thought you might be interested. Her blog is a great resource. She also runs an online support group of sorts for adults in active eating disorder recovery. Here are two of the blogs I’m talking about:


    1. I have never heard of her specifically but I’m very familiar with binge eating in anorexia recovery being normal, I talk about it a lot in my “how I recovered” post. I wrote this with people with unhealthy binge/purge cycles in mind and also, my overall message is to be kind to yourself about the binge. Thank you so much for coming to my blog. I completely agree with that argument and I will check out Tabitha! 😊


  2. Thank you for this! I had a slip in my recovery recently and still trying to recover from it fully, but this helped alot! Going to take some tie after work today for self care, get a pedicure, massage, go for a nice long walk, and cook a nutritious dinner without any guilt!


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